Well, we all have to start somewhere... right?
So this is the first post. The one that is supposed to start with the backstory and you go from there. Well, what can I say?
I had met my husband in HS, and was best friends with his sister, although we didn't start dating until after I graduated. A few years later we married, and had two beautiful girls. They are now almost 4 and 2.
We didn't always have the perfect life, and one of our children has special needs, but I thought we were happy.Until almost 2 months ago when I got a call that would change my whole world - that my husband was leaving me.
I was devastated. Angry. Cried a lot.
But now, I'm in a place of acceptance. He made a lot of decisions that I didn't agree with, both in our marriage and now that he's left it. He started seeing someone almost straight away and that, again, is his choice.
So my focus now is on my beautiful girls, and me... and getting my life on track.
Don't get me wrong, it's bloody hard some days not to want to wish for my "old" life. But I'm making a new life. That may include someone else, or maybe not. Not up to me, if it's meant to be it's meant to be!
I've always admired ur strength babe and i know if i can tackle being a single mum, then u sure as hell can too. Ur amazing and fantastic and a much better person without having someone dragging u down all the time. Chin up babe, its his loss and he'll wake up when its too late and u'll have moved on and be super happy. Thats the best revenge, having them see that :P *hugs* love u my girl xxx
ReplyDeleteAww babe, you are just too awesome with your awesomeness!
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