I just cant add up the sums to find the damage we've done

Since it's my blog, and I make the rules, I figured that each post would be song titles.

I came up with this brilliant idea yesterday as I was listening to music and singing at the top of my lungs. Yeah, I'm crazy like that.

So this blog is themed around "Damage" by You Am I. I LOVE me some You Am I. I saw them live and I love their vibe, their sound and their songs.

My MIL rang last night, and it got me thinking about how this is affecting not only us, or the kids, but every one around us. Our friends and extended family all are involved in this as well. Through being amazing support, listening, but also trying to comprehend what happened, and what happens next.

I must admit, I didn't really think much outside trying to help the girls through this. I mean, they should be the priority, but it's bigger than that. Though, mainly I still worry about the girls. It's so hard to explain to them why things are the way that they are, and hold my 3yo while she cries from wanting to know why Daddy doesn't live with us anymore : ( That part sucks so hard, and I can't seem to get my own words out...

So if anyone stumbling across this has any ideas, btdt advice or even some kind words, so appreciated!

In other news the baby and I were alone last night while he sister went to stay at her Dad's. I go to pick her up soon,and she sounded so happy on the phone last night, so hopefully this is a thing that can happen more often.